YOUR FIRST SOUL MATE CONNECTION

Soul mates connections can be felt by us all, this connection can usually be classified as our first love, the first person that we fall in love with and develop intense feelings for. 

I believe however that we encounter many soulmates during our life time, but the one that will be discussed in this post, is the one that gives us our true initial invitation to what having romantic feelings for someone really  feels like.

Falling for your first soul mate can usually happen in High school,college or later on in life.

 You could encounter someone who you can instantly feel drawn to,if the feelings are mutual from the other person who you fall for, then it is even better, you can fall into a sea of deep colorful, fluffy, exhilarating, excitable emotions and you may feel that you want to spend every hour, minute and second of the day with this person, as you associate the feelings described to that one person.

 You may feel as if you just need to be around this person all the time, you feel at peace and safe within their energy, so much so that it can lead you to wanting to alienate friends, school work, college, work , hobbies or socailising.

This person can become your best friend, your safe haven, someone who you feel comfortable to confinde in and vice-versa, it is as if you have created your own sanctuary together that noone has acess to except for the two of you, your safe place, they become your safe place and you theirs.

You may always want to spend your time together not wanting to waste anytime apart, cherishing every moment, always feeling that there is somthing to learn whenever together with your special person.

Soulmate connections can feel as if you met the other person before, each partner feels so familiar to the other, it is as if you have met one another in a past life if you believe in past life connections..if you do you may feel as if you reconnected again in this life to finish off what was started in the past..

You may enjoy the same T.V shows, music, hobbies as your soul mate or you may not but you could find that you gain an intrest in what the other enjoys but not to take on the same likes as the other but show a general intrest to what your love enjoys.

You will feel seen and heard for the first time, accepted for who you are which will make you feel able to express your true authentic self, your soulmate could become like your human dairy, you may express deep feelings and secrets to them that you feel that you cannot tell another soul.

You both may flirt with the idea that you want to spend forever with oneanother, you may believe that you will never feel this way about another person and you can feel as if the feeling that you are experiencing is only assesible to just the two of you.

Connecting to your soulmate for the first time could make you feel as if you are connecting to your own soul for the first time,  you could start to feel the depths of how it feels to really feel for another which could awaken emotions within you that you felt did not exsist or feelings that were dormant.

One way to discribe how it may feel to be in soulmate connection is to think of how your favorite songs or food makes you feel, how your mood lifts, you feel overjoyed, your  soul feels soothed and tranquil, you could feel in a trance of escapism and bliss, a state of euphoria  that one feels after a good work out, that state of high vibration that cannot be captured in the 3D, it is an energy created, connecting to another realm and you could feel a sense of surrendering to the experience......

You may find yourself day dreaming and becoming obsessed about the other or vice versa, this person can becomes your whole world.

You may spend time talking for what seems like forever to this person on the phone or to other people and any time spent with this person does not feel long enough.

Depending on your home life situation this connection can be a replacement to the love or attention  that you could not be recieving from home, if however you are recieving the love and attention from your care givers or if  you are happy at home alone, cupid's arrow can still strike you and you can still fall for another but maybe not as intense but it depends on a persons personality type and birth chart.

Because the connection is new to both parties,or not ( Yourself or the other person may have experienced somthing simular in the past ) this experience with the new soul mate will still become a brand new and significant experience.

You can put this person on a pedastol, seeing the person as a magical being who has stepped out of another glaxy and dimension and who has granted you acess of  feelings that only you at the time feel has never been experienced before.

You may wear rose cloured glasses when in your dealings with your soulmate, perfering only to see the good in them and glossing over their flaws, it is important however to pay attention to flaws, acknowledge and be aware and vocalise to the other if their actions and ways are upsetting or hurting you, soulmates are human and  human's make mistakes and noone, not even ourselves are perfect and just because someone is our soulmate does not mean that we are perfect and will always show up perfectly.

In a soulmate connection you may get a feeling as if you have your own VIP pass to an adventure only exclusive to yourself and your person, you could feel for the first time what love is, believe in fairytales and gain feelings of happier ever afters...

For once in your life, everything makes sense,you feel as if you met someone who connects with you on a heart felt level without any  judgement, you just want to spend your time with a person who you believe can  makes everything right in your life.

You can create a mystical bubble of love and  protection around the connection that some may witness and see and acknowledge that the connection between the two of you that has been created, could be explained as  simply, magical.

You could place so much emphasis on this one person making everything right in your world, your feelings can become dependent on how they show up towards you, which in a sense could be a danger as we should not place our happiness on a person, it is to much of a responsibility to place on another, we should wholeheartedly be responsible for our own happiness and should seek inwardly to acess happiness then join another to share with them what we have found within,in the hope that they to have found their own happiness and peace so that both can create an synergy of being whole individually and together as well as then creating a new energy of wholeness together.

 Unfortunately down the line, some soul mates could face opposition during this connection, these oppositions could be your own as induviuals, or from outside forces, family and friends, demands could get in the way and you could get swade towards other obligations and depending on your age, if you are young? family and friends may feel as if the two are to young to be together and may feel as if the connection could affect School work, hobbies and other friendships.

Some family and friends however may be accepting of the connection and may not choose to interfere and may be happy for the relationship.

The connection can inspire others to want to find the type of connection that you share with your person for themselves, even others known to both are within a relationship, the relationship that you have with your person can radiate acceptence, deep profound love, friendship and loyalty  which could help others to want to seek this same energy in another wether single or already in a partnership.

The connection can also unfortunately trigger some people in toxic ways whereby some people may trash talk the connection to the point where they could try and separate the two soulmates intentionally by implanting in one or the others mind about the situation not being real, being able to find better or going as far as encouraging one or both to look at, talk to and be with others romantically as a strategic way to break the bond that the two soulmates share.

These people can operate in this way due to not feeling as if they do not have love in their own life, even if these people are in partnership's they may feel as if their connection does not share the same enchanting bond that they want for themselves or despise to see that others share this bond reflected back to them.

These people may feel that they feel are lacking in their life in the area of love or connection and  feel Intilted to have this type of connection for themselves as somewhere inside seeing this bond could trigger an inadequacy within them of not feeling desriable to have someone's love ,it is a personal thought and not fact. 

 These hidden feelings can make such person ruthless in their pursuit to prove to themselves that they are worthy, these feelings are not the truth, but its a truth that the iñtuder can feel to be true. 

 Some people could be obsessed in a romantic sense to one of the two in this soulmate pairing  and could seek to destroy the connection and want to capture the same level of love for themselves and to be seen in the same light as the two soul mates such as being seen as besotted in oneanother.

 There will in this case, be an unrealistion to this person that the connection between the soulmates operate on a chemical and Spritual level and they ( the iñtuder does not share the same romantic blueprint to have such a connection with one of these partners in the first place.

This type of heavy energy can come from Family members, close friends or acquaintances, work colleagues.

Some family members may judge the pairing feeling as if the one of the two soulmates are no good for the other and could choose to interfere by placing demands on one of the two so that it leaves no room for the two soulmates to connect or outright saying to one of the two that they need to seperate as well as adding ultimatums. 

Depending on how much confidence, self awarness and self love there is with the partners in the pairing, they will sense that toxic misuse of control and abuse and in some cases the  narcasstic abuse that is being thrown in their direction to destroy and take away somthing and someone that matters.

This dynamic is about trying to make one powerless so one will need to take back their power and stand in their truth and not abandoned themselves or partner.

It should be acknowledged and seen that they are in a cycle of control by others who do not want to see them happy but rather see them stuck so that they can have controll to their whole entire existence ( Think Romeo and Juliet)  but not that dramatic or extreme but the energy of seperation can be felt in these pairings only making the two soulmates bond stronger and in some cases unbreakable.

If in a situation whereby outsiders or third parties are trying intrude in this pairing, ackowledge and accept that everyone will not agree with this partnership however people,if they want to remain in your life need to have boundrais when it relates to yourself and your partnetship, meaning no tolerance of disrepect to the other partner by purposely inserting themselves between the two to cause a divide, to shift attention to let the other feel left out, to gossip about one to the next, to point out flaws, the list could be endless.

Partners in this pairing need to be vigilant to these sly attacks or will risk being seen as unsafe to be with, the relationship, if you want it to work needs to be protected at all cost or could be lost if one or two slack in regards to see when outsiders really do pose a threat on this pairing.

 One should be paranoid of others who want to come around this connection but to have discernment and listen to ones intuition and look at cues from others who are jealous and dingenuiois, these people usually give themselves away if you pay attention to the signs, if not then you or your person could risk loosing a beautiful connection for allowing these dark forces into your beautiful connection and run the risk of your relationship being destroyed.

Third parties can try and intervene in any connections especially when two people are are deeply in love, it can trigger a wound within another who may prove to seek validation that they are deserving of the love that another shares with yourself or vice /versa and depending on how emotionally strong the couple is,the thrid party will not succeed in separating two people who genuinely love and care for one another.

Partners in a soulmate connection both may flirt with the idea that you want to spend forever with oneanother, you may believe that you will never feel this way about anyone again, may only have eyes for the one person, vice versa. 

This connection can become intense in this pairing and can lead to difficulties in regards to expressing fears, there could be feelings of fearing loosing the other which could resort into possessiveness with both parties or one person feeling the urge to be around and avalible for the other at all time.

The relationship could become suffocating, both or one person not knowing or understanding where these intense emotions stems from, aguments could eurpt out of nowhere, again third  party interventions could interject and cause a threat to the relationship especially if the third parties can sense that there is trouble in paradise.

The relationship can collapse if there is no direction as to where the relationship is headed, there could be a fear from one or both parties to express that they do not know where the relationship is headed, for some to think about this would ignite a feeling of restriction, especially if young, what would that mean for their future that they did not even think about entirely yet.

One or the two of this pairing could begin to emotionally push the other away, become distant, play mind games, trying to destroy what is being created, the connection can become to emotionally intense that they may feel that it is making them unhealthy and could also be a fear of loosing oneanother.

There could be feelings of not knowing who to tell these feelings or emotions to because friends or family members may respond with a lack of empathy or say that they should focus on their education work or entertain other connections or other parts of their life and down play what one is experiencing.

If the two can express openly about their feelings to each other about the relationship such as their fears around  rejection, loss jealously  it can leave room for awarness and gaining clarity about what the other is experiencing or feeling and then one can act accordingly.

Fixating on negative emotions and not expressing them can lead to arguments, spontaneous shocking behaviour, creating conflit and drama due to a fear of loosing the other could manifest pushing the other person away due to ones behaviour which can then result in one or both parties feeling like the connection was not real after all.

 What can ba dream can result in a nightmare if not handled with care, not discussing the insecurites around the connection can lead to a sense of dispear and sadness and helpessnes, it can be a rollacoster of emotions that can leave one feeling confused, unstable and anxious and uncomfortable, far from how things felt in the beginning stages when you and your soulmate were both sure of oneanother which gave a sense of security and feelings of togetherness experienced by both of you.

I feel that personally,soulmate connections carry the energies of many planets and zodiac signs, these energies that i believe exsist from these zodiac and planets can play out within the relationships at diffrent times.

The energy of the planets, the  Moon, Neptune, Sun, venus, Mercury, Uranus, Pluto and zodiac signs Cancer, Pisces, Leo, Libra, Taurus, Gemini, Aquarius Scorpio, I feel are significant in the pairing.

MOON INFLUENCE 

The moon rules your emotions, how you feel and respond, in a soulmate connection, the moon influence repersents the Sun sign Cancer and Cancer rules the fourth house in the Astrology house system.

The fourth house repersents our sense of belonging, the mother, our stability and heritage.

The Astrology house system repersents diffrent areas of our lives and each zodiac sign  repersents diffrent houses.

You may find that yourself and your soulmate find a quiet peace with each other, and a sense of familiarity, you could find that you have empathy and compassion for eachother also,wanting to mother and care for eachother and unknowingly in some cases your responces towards your soulmate can be a reflection of your own relationship with your mother.

 Some could operate with wanting to protect and give security to the partner because growing up the love and affection from parents was present or unfortunately not present at all.

Some partners within the pairing could choose to reject offers of love and emotional expression, which could be due to growning up with feelings not being expressed by care givers or not having space to express themselves freely which seems emotionally restricted which then leads to a repression of emotions with no outlet.

Within a soulmate connection one can open up emotionally to another person, maybe for the first time as there could be a feeling of security, emotional understanding and deep connection.

One may find that a wale of emotions spill out due to not feeling safe enough or having anyone to express these emotions to, a sense and feeling of healing can occur during this time which will then allow both parties to build trust, compassion, understanding for the other.

ADVICE

Connecting to ourseleves helps us to be able to connect and be open to our Soulmate.

You can connect to yourself by paying attention to your emotions, how you feel about situations, people, experiences and putting words to these emotions.

Keeping a journal that you write in daily can help to shed light on how you feel, for some Shadow work will be of benifit where you clear out stagnated emotions repressed from the past as well as getting in touch with your shadow side.

Connect with your passions or find a passion or take up a hobby, exercise and connect with people, places and evioments that make you feel good, not throw you off emotionally.

Going to thearphy will be of benifit also as it will be an opportunity to express yourself and to hear your thoughts out loud as well as to gain clarity of situations that have occured in the past or presently.

Checking in emotionally with your partner will help strengthen the bond between the two, wether it is checking in on how ones day at work was, issues with family, future goals and aspirations, set backs, insecurites.

These conversation create a feeling of being heard, getting to know sides of your partner that are not present on the surface and it creates a deep emotional bond between the two as you allow acess to the other parts of yourself that is not privy to everyone.

When you connect with yourself you are able to connect to your soulmate on an emotional level, you can be present, open and understanding, this will help strengthen the bond by showing that you are emotionally avalible and gives the connection a sense of security of togetherness of it not just being about "ME " it will give a sense of "WE.

Connecting emotionally gives a sense of security and saftey, care and understanding.

Not becoming relient on the other emotionally is important as what can happen if not handled properly is one person could feel as if they are the other persons therapist, while it is amazing to be there to listen to your partner and to be able to express oneself, one does need to take action and in ways that will help them connect to self and destress.

In some unfortunate cases a partner in these soulmate pairings, if not highly evolved can use feelings expressed from the other as weapons to malipulate and destroy the other emotionally and intentionally.

It is important to not hand all your power away emotionally and not expect your partner to rescue you and have all the answears, one must seek out ways to help themselves first with the support of a partner.

One should also express about triggers and hidden fears and get these thoughts out within the open and continue the self healing and love journey as it it is on goining throughout the relationship with another.

NEPTUNE INFLUENCE 

The energy of neptune is significant within a soulmate connection as neptune is known to be a planet that holds traits of being  mystical, fantasylike, hazey, unclear, illusionary, magical and creative.

The sign Pisces is ruled by the planet Neptune, Pisces is ruled by the twelfth house, the twelth house represents hidden emotions, thoughts and fears that one needs to confront, a time to express our hidden deepest feelings, wether taboo or not.

 Some twelth house energies repersent relationships or emotions that are hidden, feelings and emotions will be expressed and somtimes especially if these feelings were repressed in some way, but because of the trust that is built within the soulmate pairing the two couls choose to share these unknowns to eachother with a knowing of the secrets shared will be held secred.

A soulmate connection has that magical, ethereal quality to the connection, you can feel or view oneanother as a dream come true, a fantasy brought to life which can tap into one or both of your creativities, if one or both are creatives,the connection can inspire you create a some of your best work, seeing oneanother as a muse, inspiring oneanother to show up and be seen in the best light for each other, wanting to project an image of being near to perfect for each other ( neptune does also rule illusion's after all...

You both may gloss over flaws and red flags presented to you from the other, only  wanting to view each other through rose coloured neptunien like  glasses.

You could project an image onto your partner or vice versa of who you would want them to be and get lost and caught up with that image of projection only to he disapointed when the other person does not live up to the hype and manifestion that was unwilling forced opoun them.

The neptunien like qualities will echo within this pairing as both parties could show depth in empathy, compassion and forgiveness, both could feel a spritual bond that connects them bot to another realm.

You could feel as if the only way to discribe the connection is through song or the connection could be indescribable as it is a soul felt connection.

Music could play a huge role within the connection, wherby yourself and person may sing, write songs, poetry or send songs to oneanother, within these songs sent will be hidden messages of how the other feels towards each other.

Neptune is a romantic and dreamy planet, so you could connect to eachother through dreams, find yourself escaping in thought by thinking of the other person and connecting spritually with eachother through telepathic messages.

You could feel as if your problems melt away when with one another and could both create your own safe haven, fantasy based love bubble or nest, yourself or both parties may feel hypnotized and under a spell of the other.

You could be a manifestation of what the other fantasized about, you could near more sprituality during this pairing, wanting to find meaning to these new found emotions, believing that a higher force for the first time, You could gain signs, sycncrinities through this connection that are not apparent to others.

The connection will feel hazy at times, like a mist, unable to capture or get to the depth of other, not seeing which direction the connecton will go, feeling unsure in some regards if the other will hurt you, but hoping for the best.

Despite the connection presenting neptunian traits, everyone is human and in knowing this, one should expect human behavior, despite the mental and telepathic link shared in this pairing.

One or borth oth parties may feel anger and frustration towards the other when there is a feeling present of the other not acting or saying things that is expected, these inactons from one or both parties can shatter illusions and can make each party indeed see oneanother as, human. 

One needs not to loose self to much in the fantasy of this connection, choose not to idolize the other because eventually the Marija of Neptune will clear which can give a feeling of harshness and shock that a person you placed on a pedastol is indeed not this make believe being who is perfect, the energy of hard cold facts and reality will hit ( Saturn)and could be an uncomfortable truth to face if choosing not to face a reality of the state of the connection or behaviors from one or both parties.

ADVICE

Use this connection to fuel your creativities individually, to be compasionate to self and partner,  not to gloss over and face problems when they present themselves.

Have boundrais within the connection, keep the romance alive by letting each other know how you both feel by telling your person through words, song, love letters, romantics dates or trips, keep communication open and honest to keep trust alive, try not to present an image of what you want your person to love and like, be your true authentic self ( especially in regards to (looks, personality) soulmate connections go beyond the psychical anyway.

SUN INFLUENCE 

The sun repersents how we stand out, express ourselves, how we shine, within a soulmate connection, both partners will express themselves induviually but when together the two may feel as though they generate more confidence together and shine better or in some cases only want to stand out induviually to shine and  to impress their soulmate.

Beyonce's line from crazy in love is reminiscent of this for me personally when she says ("Tennis shoes, don't even need to buy a new dress, if you ain't there ain't noobody eles to impress....

This line repersents to me within a soulmate connection that you are they only one that i want, that i see, that i want to impress, that i want to shine for, that i want to make you feel good by looking my best for you and knowing that it is only for you, if you are not around then theres no point in trying to gain anyone eles attention as your my main focus ...

The Sun rules the Zodiac sign Leo, Leo is the fifth sign of the zodiac the fifth house repersents creativity, dating, children, self-expression, fun, play, joy and excitment.
Soulmate Connections can make you feel a mixture of happiness, joy, excitment, regardless your age, if older you can get in touch with your inner child and take up hobbies and hidden passions induviually or together, you will feel a spark and electricty in your life, magnetized by oneanother and excited to create exciting joyous memories together.

Children can result in some soulmate connections as the fifth house which Leo rules does speak about procreating children,however not in all cases procreation is the result of being in a soulmate connection, procreation can be created in any other connection.

This connection could be the relationship wherby you go out on a dates, have your first kiss and you could  become inimate for the first time,if you have been inimate before it could feel like something not experienced before as the element of passion, intensity and a strong attraction will exsist within this new connection, the two will feel like best friends and could be viewed by others as two best friends who are romantically in love with oneanother.

Regardless of your age there will be a feeling of feeling forever young, sharing inside jokes, teasing oneanother, both creative, playful, being joyful and expressing colorful emotions and feelings of love engulfing the both of you.

You and your person may shine in areas such at work, around friends, family members or aquatiences.

There will be an internal glow up sensed and more of an enthusiasm showcased between the two both together or separatly, you could help each other become more confident in how they show up in the world or to go after goals, there will be a sense of security placed on eachother to an inner knowing that you both belive in oneanother and want the best for each other in all areas of the other life.

ADVICE

This sunny playful vibrant aspect of the connection can be kept alive by focusing on your self love and worth, continuing to pour into yourself by taking up a an intrest or hobby together or separately outside of the connection.

Focus on maintaining your own induviuallity within the connection and not being relient on your partners energy all the time in order for you to shine. Self love can be started and even continued once in a soulmate connection.

Continue to create  meaningful date nights, movie nights with oneanother and do somthing or go somewhere where both of you agree on, taking it in turns to invite exciting experiences into your connection.

Keep the romance alive by adding excitment to your intimacy, uplift and let the other know how much you appreciate them, continue to make an effort for each other and let the other know how much you both love and enjoy each others company.

VENUS INFLUENCE 

Venus repersent who we are attracted to, who we love, how we love, what we place value on and what we invest in.

Venus rules the signs Taurus and Libra, Taurus is ruled by the second house which rules investments and what we value and Libra rules the seventh house which repersents relationships, shared contracts (Marriage/ bisinuess ) and open enemies.

The partners within this soulmate partnership will make it be known that there is an intrest in each other, they will feel drawn to each other though not always psychically at first but will find something attractive each other in most cases it will be looks and psychical features, energy, charm, socail grace, personality and charisma could be a huge attraction with this pairing as well as having the same things in common, such as food, T.V shows, flims, music, hobbies, how one spends or saves money 

 Both will be on the same page in regards to investing into eachother and into the relationship, once the two are  together in a connection this will indicate to the two, that there is a willingness to invest in each other by being on the same page which will then give the connection a sense of security and how one displays their care and attention towards oneanother.

The couple will feel a sense of falling in love with one another, prehaps for the first time and could have feelings of giddyness, ease and comfort, however, not only will the pair love oneanother they will really like the other and enjoy oneanothers company, seeing their partner as a best friend, lover and confident all in one.

This soulmate connection could result in a couple wanting to spend forever with the other so much so that they may get engaged and married.

Many couples have bee  with a partner during their teen years and move on to marrying the person or being with the same person for a long time without the signing of a contract.

ADVICE 

The loving aspect of this connection can kept strong within this soulmate pairing based on both partners love languages being expressed to the other, acknowledged, understood and amplified.

Stay connected through spending quality time, letting the other know that you care as well as making each other feel valued, appricated, nutured, cared for and understood.

Loving self by pouring into and investing in yourself will help to amplify this pairing, as it will showcase a sense of self love and importance, which will mirror to both partners about how they should also treat and invest in the other aswell as showing that there one does not have to be dependent on validation coming only from their parter as they can find validation within self.

MERCURY INFLUENCE 

Mercury rules our thought patterns and how we communicate with others. 

In Astrology the planet Mercury rules the signs Gemini and Virgo.

Gemini is the ruler of the third house which repersents our early learning envioment which shapes our thought process, the third house also rules our neighborhood,siblings,neighbors and socail media.

Virgo rules the sixth house which repersents work, lifestyle, routines, fitness, wellbeing, being of service to self and to others, 

 In Soulmate connection as well as in any other connection the lines of having open and healthy communication is important.

Within this partnership, both partners could confess how they feel for each other by expressing verbally their love for oneanother.

For some, it may not be the first time that they have experienced love but each love is diffrent than any love experienced  before.

Influence from ones community, siblings, envioment could play out within this pairings relationship for good or bad, as well as showing concern about ones mental and psychical health and offering support and being of service to the other will play out in this connection.

If things feel one sided in anyway or the relationship goes through a rocky stage it could heavily impact one or both partners mental health so it is important that both parties take care of their mental and emotional wellbeing.

Having open communication can help the pair to bond on an mental level where they can learn things about oneanother and find that they may not always agree on the same matters.

One or the other of this soulmate pairing may find it hard to express their thoughts due to maybe being in past relationships wherby communication was quite absent or more one sided in regards to messaging, calling, speaking verbally, other areas of the relationship may have been of more importance but in order to learn and understand your partner communication is key as it allows for thoughts and feelings expressed and hopfully addressed.

In this pairing regarding soulmates, the pair may find that they have a meeting of the minds and could feel as if they can share anything with their partner, respect for ones intrest and thought pattern should be respected but may not also be agreed apoun, the couple could find that they have someone that they can trust, tell their thoughts, problems and ideas too as well as to have someone that they can talk to about their day, favorite intrest or program's which helps to strengthen the bond that they both created together.

ADVICE

Priotizing ones metal health by being aware of what upsets the flow of the connection, envioments, community, work, lack of vitimins, exercise or rest are of importance as underline frustration can fester and spill over into the relationship.

 keeping in regular contact and keeping the line of communication open in this pairing is important as it leaves room for open trust, being able to plan things together, sharing information together that is important and speacail to both partners.

Having an open discussion relating to how much times one may communicate i.e. ( phone calls, messages, voice notes daily or not should be discussed so that both can gain a clear understanding of what to expect.

Learning your partners communication style and habits is important so that things do not come as a shock, i.e, not taking offense if one does not hear from the other for a few hours, days, etc or will hear from a partner daily etc.

Generally relationships work when two people are actively communicating with oneanother as it shows levels of intrest and care and does not leave room for doubt and concern.

MARS INFLUENCE 

Mars rules our drives and passions  our primal insticts, how we go towards and excute our goals and how we express our energy.

The planet Mars rules the sign Aries, Aries is the first sign of the zodiac and Aries rules over the first house which repersents, how you are seen by others.

 The Mars influence in a soulmate pairing can play out in ways whereby the two in the partnership will feel an urge to be with each other and be determined to make this happen by taken action to approach the other in the first place to express how one feels as well as expressing how one feels intimately when spending time  together.

Both within this partnership will be psychically attracted to oneanother in a romantic sense and will make it be known towards the other by acting this out physically when becoming intimate with oneanother.

Many hiccups can arise in this pairing but both could try to work together through obstacles and delays to make the situation work, to be near and spend quality time with the other.

One or both within this pairing could want to dominate the other and dictate the outcome of the connection which could be met with resistants, this could lead to aguments and resentment which could lead to the connection turning into a battleground.

If the Mars energy is chanelled healthy within this connection both will work together to come up with realistic  goals to accomplish such as where to go on dates, holidays, career aspirations as well as having a healthy love life.

ADVICE 

Learn to take the lead and to be lead depending on who within this pairing excells in areas that arise.

Both partners should try and stay clear from dominating and trying to control the other as it would lead to one or both feeling repressed and retricted within the relationship.

Learn each others likes and dislikes in a psychical sense so you both know what to expect and what the others wants and needs are.

Show oneanother how much you both care by making time for intimacy as well as discussing when to piortize intimacy.

Try and find outlets in exercise, sports and hobbies, together or separately.

PLUTO

The pluto influence is strong within a soulmate connection, one or the two could feel a pull towards the other, want to be near the other constantly or fixate on the other when in seperation.

The planet Pluto rules the sign Scorpio, Scorpio rules the eighth house which repersents, death,sex, rebirth, transformation, shared resorces, taxes money owed, money gained.

Pluto influences within a soulmate pairing is extremely powerful, if not handled carefully one could feel as if they are consumed with the other, obsessed and in some cases depending on if games of manipulation are involved, feel as if they are loosing their mind.

There is an underline theme of power and control that can be directed towards each other, wanting to own oneanother, merge and intertwine on a psychical level as if the body craved it, feelings of possession could creep up and be expressed with one of both soulmates and depending on how highly evolved the two are the feelings will be expressed in a positive or negative way.

The fixation on oneanother could be felt by the other and many who are around the couple, it is as if unknowingly both have an aura of intesnse chemistry and attraction towards each other that will feel that it needs expressing.

 There will be strong urge of wanting to devour the other, wanting to connect with the others essense, mind, body, soul the whole being so that one can connect to, merge with, and have access to the soul of the other that noone eles can access. 

Thoughts of loosing the other could strike doubt and fear which could lead to possisevness and control, one or both may feel uncomfortable and controlled which could lead to games of cat and mouse..

The connecton can get very toxic, because pluto influences within a soulmate connection has to be handled with care because it can run the risk of the relationship being unbearable to be in.

The connection can feel emotionally taxing,( Pluto rules Scorpio, which rules over tax/ other peoples money) especially if one or both are trying to control the other, being possessive, maybe even trying to control what the others spends on, u trying to control the others sexuality by using means of injecting fear that one will stray and give their love away, an intentional withdrawal of affection towards the other or vice-versa could play out if not highly evolved as a way to make the other crave intimacy, closeness and to crave the other intensely can be done because of one or both fears around  or loosing the other.

Things can really get heavy, intense and toxic if both partners do not address these issues if these unfortunate issues were to arise.

Control over the others whereabouts, who they talk to, where they go could become a theme, how much money is spent, controlling anothers finaces even if resources are shared which could lead to financial abuse.

If not retified these themes could result in given away ones power, trying to regain control and both trying to dominate the other in power dynamics and malipulation.

The energies of pluto can be expressed positively if both partners are self aware of their traits and are willing to work on them and with each other, this will then result in both within this connection can enjoying the experience and growing induviually and as a couple.

The intense energy can however can be transmitted into somthing captivating where both parties explore the depths of oneanother on a soul level, merging together mind, body, soul and opening up and placing trust within a person.

Feeling seen and accepted  could be felt and feeling comfortable to express emotionally during the inimate aspect of the connection to make the bond of togetherness secred.

Advice

Confronting own fears and sense of control is important will help in the connection as oppose to trying to control, possess the other, get in touch with where the fears and triggers stem from, this could be done by journalling :

*Your thoughts

* Fears

* Concerns

* Triggers

* Where these concerns stems from

* How these concerns make you feel?

* The sensations of these emotions

*Ways to look at the concerns.

*  Develop new thoughts and feelings to replace  negative feelings

* Ways of being in control of ones feelings and ways in which one can transmute negative thought patterns and feelings into postive ones.

* Establishing and Confronting boundrais if boundrais have been crossed.

* Practicing mindfullness meditation

* Pray ( If you do so)

* Get theraphy to uncover unhealed trumas to transform from experiences

* Join a Yoga class/ Martail arts class 

* Take up Swimming/ Boxing or any form of exercise to transmute negative stored up energy

* Go for walks 

* Dance 

* Paint or sing ( It does not matter if you cannot draw like Picasso or sing like Whitney Housten) Im sure your paintings and singing is beautiful anyway,the main objective is to transmute your energy into somthing postive.

Partners can also go to therapy on their own or with their partner, sometimes the fear of loosing the one you love and deep bond that you share could reault in toxic traits that can unfortunately push the person you love away which is the fear in the first place that could turn into reality.

Gaining control over self and not trying to control others and learning to trust will be of high importance.

Both partners should focus on  growth in  other areas of your life as well as evolving daily, focusing on self development and contecting in a  healthy way with your partner, making intimacy a deep, spritual secred experience, gaining, maintaining space for each other without the need to control, dominate, have suspicion, having trust towards the other and focus on tranmuting feelings of fear and inadequacy into somthing postive. 

SATURN INFLUENCE 

The Saturn influence plays out within a soulmate connection in ways where by there is an understanding of both parties being committed to oneanother.

The planet Saturn rules the sign Capricorn, Capricorn rules the the tenth house which rules your public image, status, fame, recognition and legacy and karma.

The energy of the planet Saturn can be mature, serious, restrictive, delayed, reserved and cool. Saturn binds and the relationship can have a  serious tone to it, it can give the connection a sense of predicatblity, in some cases the energy of saturn can play out  positively, interferences from family members or others ( as mentioned before) can cause blockages and delays within the connection which can put a strain on the partnership which can then lead to disagreements with the pair.

There could be a tone of seriousness apprant within the connection, with one or the other wanting to make the connection permenate early on, a feeling of duty, obligation and commitment can be felt within the connection which in some cases could make one or the other within this pairing uncomfortable as it could make one feel as if they are rushed towards their independence being taken away.

A Saturn connection within a soulmate relationship could ingite fear in one or two within the connection there will be a inner knowing that one or both will have to mature in one way or the other and one or both may find that they are not ready to as it would mean that one will now have to shift their life  around,there could be a feeling of not feeling ready to do as yet untill confronted with this connection so there could be an energy of not wanting to mature but a feeling if not being able to stay away from the other person.

The other person within this pairing could repersent having to mature and stepping away from the old and stepping into ones power and to be seen as being taking off the market, being in a relationship, being commited,being off limits

Within this pairing one or both could feel that the other is not opened up emotionally, shows little empathy when needed and acts cool and distant, many factors could be at play why these behaviors could show up but it is important to speak open and honestly to the other about how you feel.

One or both within the pairing may feel the urge to rebel from such seriousness if this level of seriousness is introduced very early on, however  there will be an inner knowing felt between the two that despite any separation that does occur they will be lead back to the other due to the binding energy of Saturn.

Some couples within this pairing could end up marrying as they will feel that they have found their forever person, only after gaining comfortabllity with the energy of the Saturn and working with and seeing the benifits of how Saturn plays out within the partnership, marriage will occur.

ADVICE 

In a soulmate partnership there is a sense of recongnition within the other as though as they met oneanother before and they have, in a past life if you believe in past lives connections....

The relationship can work if both acknowledge how their behaviour of reserve or restrictions imposes and affects the other.

If there is a sense of unhappiness talk things through  things through about how some of the behaviour displayed affects one or  both parties.

 Even if it feels uncomfortable there should be an open discussion about how issues effect the other, doing this is important as there may be a lack of awarness present coming from one or both partners about how their behaviour affects the other.

Some peoples thoughts and opinions about the connection could have an impact on the connection and affect the parties within the relationships, these thoughts of being of a diffrent race, religion, tax bracket could be brought up to one or two of within this pairing, some people could think they are helping or could be intentionally imposing their views about the connection and going as far as to cause a divide.

These induviuals who operate in this way do have a past life connection to one or both of these couples and it is for the partners involved to set up boundrais or cut these people off as these induviuals can block what could of been a beautiful connection due to their own reasonings.

One must stand in their power and break free from such people especially if these connections leaned apoun codependency, in this life maybe the lesson is to depend on self and not give ones power away and betray onesself.

Partners should adkowledge the others thoughts, fears, whats going on in their partners life and expectations about the relationship  (the negotiable's and non negotiable's.)

If outside interference seem to be a burden, this should be brought up and discussed, work out a way in which the interference will not cause a threat apoun the partnership by setting up boundrais to inturders to show to oneanother that the connection is important and valued. 

 Personally some saturn like energy of restriction, such as having rules and regulations should be imposed on those that are trying to interfere within the soulmate connection, the pair should, if needs be restrict acess from interfering exes, friends, family members, aquatiences who do not agree with the connection

If however the two have to be around such people, boundrais, rules, regulations need to be put in place to show that their are certain things that cannot be tolerated if boundrais are pushed then the result should be to cut off acess.

If the relationship is apprant to others ( Tenth house)protect   eachother and the union. 

Show the seriousness about the commitment to each other, do not allow anyone to try and play in the energy of the relationship, respect yourself, partnership so much so that others will have no choice but to respect your pairing.

The relationship can work with awarness of both parties willing to put in the effort of respect, support, commitment, loyalty and allowing one space to not feel restricted and caged in.

Allow oneanother room to explore career goals and ambition's, do not feel intimidated by the others success or place in the world.

Reassure the other that the relationship is of importance and show loyalty and dependablity and accountability if needs be.

Be willing to work through any issues that arise and remember why you got together in the first place if anc when things get or feel heavy, stagnated and restrictive.

Soulmate connections can be felt diffrently from person to person however, having sharing  this beautiful experience and connection shared with another can be a truly beautiful feeling, i believe that we are in this world to be of love, to give love and to receive love, there should not be any other way....

SOME SONGS THAT REPERSENT A SOULMATE CONNECTION

* Candy Golden Raindrops  : Soul for real

* Dangerously in love : Beyonce 

* Crazy in love : Beyonce 

* Always in my heart :Tevin Campbell 

* How deep is your love : Dru Hill

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